Introverts Don't Need To Be Fixed!

The world is always loud or that is what it seems especially for introverts. In any set-up there are different kinds of people and I bet all my life majority are extroverts.

Since they are more outspoken and engaging any gathering becomes too big and loud for any introvert. May atimes they will retreat to their usual self, isolate or quiet in a corner maybe minding their own business.

The problem is the extroverted characters won't stop talking and asking questions. Many wonder why are you not talking to people? Something wrong? Do you dislike people? Actually no! I really could love for people to understand that being the reserved one has nothing to do with having problems.

Introverts are simply different, the sooner people appreciated the difference the better.

It feels intrusive, judgmental and unfair for the most talkative characters always finding fault in the opposite.

Stop fixing introverts! Understanding will do.

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